Believe it or not, this is one that I sTruggLe with. Birthdays, surgeries, baby arrivals and house warming gifts are just some of the few events that leave me defeated due to lack of creative ideas and planning ahead for special moments.
Before I continue with my point, it might be helpful to share some of my history. Growing up, my family didn’t CeleBraTe birthdays with gifts. Don’t get me wrong, I have extremely fond memories of birthdays…Mom made our favorite meal, we got a custom decorated Dairy Queen ice cream cake and we ended the night watching a movie as a family. BUT, we never had the big piles of presents…in fact, it was very rare that we associated gifts with birthdays. I knew other kids who did that, but I never thought anything of it because I felt my birthday was special and uNiqUe the way we celebrated it.
Because I didn’t grow up getting many gifts I think that is why I have a hard time buying gifts for others. Now that I am older, it seems more challenging because everyone around me seems so thoughtful and I find that people give gifts for almost any and every occasion! In some ways I have learned to be better about gift giving. I try to have a basket of goodies on hand that I can wrap up in a pinch and give to someone as the occasion arises. Robynn gave me some great aDviCe—buy people things that they can consume (candles or a specialty food item) that way if they don’t like it they aren’t obligated to keep it around. This was helpful because just trying to think of what to give always served as an extra road block.
More importantly, give from the HEART. Anymore, if I don’t have time to make a trip to town I just tuck some money in a card and put a cute piece of paper around it saying “This $ is only to be spent at Dairy Queen for your Birthday”. Even though it isn’t an official gift card, it’s the thought that counts. In the end, isn’t that what gift giving is all about?