Last Friday I made my 9 day promise to be a more patient mommy and not “LoSe It” when things get out of control. Within 3 hours of the post going up I was already struggling to keep my cool when my kids seemed to be on an all out crusade to do the opposite of anything I was asking them to do! Thankfully my husband stepped in and told me to go out and run my errands by myself. I got in my mommy mini-van and listened to my Christmas music and savored each uninterrupted moment I had as I drove. While I was out I sent Lara a text saying that I seemed to be FaILiNg miserably at my 9 day promise. She wrote back some great advice…”Actions are stronger than words.” Now when my kids act up instead of yelling I am taking Lara’s advice and am just moving them to time-out without saying anything. They are old enough to know why they are in trouble without me going on and on about it and saying nothing keeps me from “losing it”. By the time their time-out is over I can talk to them about what they did in a calm manner.
When working on your Live-It List, think about the people you can ReLy on to help you be successful. Whether it be skydiving or completing a quilt, think of the people in your life that you can reach out to who can help you AcHieVe your goals!
~Robyn (Jersey Girl)