To assist in making your dreams a reality, you must have a clear vision of what you want. An easy and InSpiRinG way to document your goals is by creating a vision board. Your vision board can include pictures, words, quotes or anything that depicts what you want to accomplish. Do you want to improve your confidence? Hang a picture of a confident woman that you admire. Want to be your own boss? Display the words “SELF-EMPLOYEED“.
I recently made a VISION board for our entire family. I actually used a picture that was hanging on the wall, took out the glass, flipped the backing to the front, and covered it with fabric! It only took about 30 minutes and didn’t cost a penny! Since our board hangs in a high-traffic area, we are reminded of our goals several times a day. This helps us stay FOCUSED and motivated. If my daughter sees something she wants in a magazine, we hang it on the board. If we want to take a vacation, we post pictures of where we want to go. Vision boards can be really fun! Be creative! You’ll be amazed at the number of things you’ll AccomplisH, all because you see it every day!!
This post is dedicated to those who have gone before us and to ALL our Service Men and Women. We feel so blessed because of you and are EtErNallY GrAtEfuL!!
~Robynn and Lara~
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Have you ever caught yourself responding to a question that sounded like this: “I can’t change. I was born this way. This is just the way I am.”? Often times we find ourselves stuck in a rut or unwilling to try something new because we are convinced we were born with limitations and are unable to change. This is not true. The power to take control of your thoughts and actions is Up TO one person… YOU!
I would consider myself to be a pretty OpTiMisTic person, but I admit I haven’t always been that way. There was a time in my life when I struggled with depression and didn’t think very highly of myself. Over time I came to believe if I wanted life to be better, ultimately the change was up to me. What did I have to lose? Although results weren’t immediate, anything would be better than keeping with my current state of mind.
Even today, I have to remind myself I have the PoweR to ChangE. Life always presents new challenges and it’s UP TO ME to determine how to respond to them. I may start the day stubbing my toe, but I will be the one to determine if it will ruin the rest of my day. Is there something in your life you want to change? Do you feel like you are in a rut? Just remember, the only thing holding you back is yourself!
LiFe LeSsOnS can come from many sources.
This is our 11-year old ChOcOLatE lab. When I got married he was part of the deal. At first I wasn’t real thrilled with this bundle of energy. He was not yet two-years old, a male (obviously), and came from a line of field champions. Since that time I’ve come to love this dog. In fact, I’ve never met another dog like Walter. For one, he thinks he is human. He acts like it too. So much so, that when friends and family come over they just can’t help but laugh at him. Whether it be helping himself to the crock-pot of chili on the counter and dumping it on the floor, opening a door, or escaping from several confinement scenarios, he always keeps us entertained.
You’ll hear more in the future from Walter, but for now he would like to leave you with his favorite quote. It comes from WiNsToN ChUrChiLL:
“never, NeVeR, NEVER GiVe Up!”
Some of the best advice my parents gave me was this: If you ever want what someone else has, then be prepared to take all that comes with it!
It is easy to look at another person’s life and pick and choose what we would want for our own, but be sure to ReMinD yourself that no situation is PERFECT. Being a celebrity would mean wealth and fame but it also means being followed by paparazzi and never getting privacy. Being a successful business owner means having the freedom of being your own boss but it also means working around the clock. I’m not saying that these positions are bad, but it is easy to only want one part of that life without the other. Unfortunately picking and choosing isn’t ReaLitY.
When finding yourself discouraged that your life isn’t as good as the family down the street, be sure to look closely at everything that comes with it. Often times you’ll realize that switching lives with them may not be worth giving up all the bLeSSinGs you have after all!
(Thanks Mom and Dad for helping me realize this VERY early in life. I wouldn’t change my life growing up as a farm kid for anything!)
Many times when we start off towards a goal or dream, it is because we are unsatisfied with some area in our life. It may be that we have failed miserably and are hoping to make a change. Misery after all, can be a GrEaT mOtiVaTor. If that is the case, then, how can we gain confidence if we don’t have many successes under our belt?
I have found the best way to RacK uP sUcCeSs is one small step at a time. This is really important because success breeds success. How do you do this? By setting a goal that is just at the end of your fingertips. Something small and attainable, but also something that is going to require you to do something that you haven’t already done. Then, as you begin to experience success you can little by little set bigger goals.
Don’t overlook the PoWeR of achieving a small goal! I originally would look down on setting small goals. They didn’t seem challenging enough to me, so I never set any. My goals were always BIG ones that had no guarantees and were much riskier. They were also few and far between. This was a huge mistake because I missed out on laying a foundation of successes.
If your goal is to get organized, don’t think that organization means spending an entire Saturday getting your messy space organized. Your small step of success may be to spend 15 minutes a day on that project. Each time you spend 15 minutes towards this goal, you have chalked up a success. Do this for seven days and you have seven successes tallied up! Maybe you are far from seeing that space organized, but you getting closer to your goal and are developing CoNfiDenCe because you are experiencing success.
This approach allows you to succeed every day. What are the small steps you can take beginning today?
Enjoy Your Small Successes Today!
P.S. Today’s post is an excerpt from a book I’m currently writing on my path to peace with food. I’m writing this book in conjunction with our six-month challenge. Thanks for the inspiration!