So here’s the truth: I have never considered myself to be a very good writer. When I first started blogging (1 month ago!) it was easy to give up b/c of the following thoughts: What if people think my posts are horrible? What if someone thinks I’m not very SmArT? What if people look at my pictures and think I’ve gained weight since they saw me last? Writing is a bit out of my CoMFOrT zone, BUT I’m never going to be a good writer unless I work at it and have someone critique me. Society influences makes us think we need to be perfect. The thing is, look how many of these thoughts keep us from doing what we really want to do?
Yesterday I wrote about living on a budget. For a moment you may have considered taking a deeper look at your own finances. Then, after a few minutes, you talked yourself out of it b/c your thoughts sounded something like this: “What if I traded in my new car for something older and used that money to pay off my credit cards? Forget it…I can’t bear to look silly driving a car that is more than 5 years old!” We’ve talked a lot about ‘what would you do if you knew you could not fail?’ So many of the reasons why we never attempt to answer that question is because we are so worried about what everyone else thinks. The thing is, what does it really matter what others think? Can you really call the people who don’t support you “F R I E N D S“? Why surround yourself with people that aren’t going to encourage and support you in doing what is best for YOU? This is YOUR LIFE. You have the power to choose how you want to live it. Don’t give in to society. Follow what is in your heart.
So whatever life change you want to make (drastic or not), remind yourself of WHY you are doing it. Don’t live in misery b/c of what you think everyone else thinks! Don’t limit yourself on the things you want to accomplish b/c the Joneses are standing on your doorstep. I’ve been there too. It’s okay. It’s normal. Acknowledge this challenge and ChAnGe your way of thinking to take control of your life. Focus on what is going to bring peace and happiness in YOUR life regardless of what the Joneses think. Get excited about feeling F R E E and the rest will come. Trust me. :)
*By the way, this is a picture of me and my daughter taken by my husband this evening :)
F R E E D O M is F U N!