If you’ve been following the Suede Sofa, you are no doubt familiar with what we call the “LiVe-It LiSt” which is similar to a bucket list but with the focus on living every day to the full rather than on dying. With the “Live-It List” I was DeTeRmiNeD to take care of all my “unfinished business” in 2012. One of those items was to PubLiSh a book that has been saved on my computer for nearly three years. Well, I can now check that item off my list. My books were delivered to my house this past Friday. What made this accomplished goal even SwEeTeR is that my family, father-in-law, and Lara’s family were there to witness me cutting open the box and seeing my book for the very first time. A very sweet moment indeed.
My book, “The Truth Behind Real Success”, compares the definition of success given to us by our society and culture with that of real, AuThEnTiC success. For more information you can check it out at Amazon.com or BarnesandNoble.com
Check out a completed “Live-It List” item from one of our readers!
I wanted a new look for the exterior of our home. Check out what I did!
I ordered the supplies from Dyebrick (http://www.dyebrick.com/) After looking at their color panels we decided we would try staining our brick Rustic Brown. Starting out we ordered a “Sample Pot” which is roughly $11.00 plus shipping. Once the sample pot arrived and we tried it out in an conspicuous area we were ready to order enough for the front of our house. We then ordered the Brick Tinting Kit which is around $55.00 plus shipping. With no dilution the Brick Tinting Kit is 20fl.oz which can cover 162.5 sq.ft.
We ordered 2 and had some stain leftover. It took us around 15 hours to do the front of the house. If you have someone helping you, the time could be cut almost in half. It does take some time since you must stain one brick at a time. The stain is permanent and is guaranteed to last a lifetime so it’s definitely worth your time. We are 100% satisfied!
Hidden Live-It List question:
What is the furthest distance you will have to travel to check off an item on your Live-It List? (feel free to use a screen name)
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Week 1 Live-It List question: Give 3 examples of “Live It” List Ideas to help Readers Brainstorm their own list, by commenting below. (feel free to use a screen name)
Lara’s Live-It List:
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Robyn (Jersey Girl’s) Live-It List:
Robynn’s Live-It List:
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One of my liVe-iT liSt items is making meal planning more of a priority (but in a way that doesn’t require much work)! If you are anything like me, when you go to your recipes it may look something like this:
An Unorganized Mess!!
So how did I fix this problem?! I bought some protective sleeves (made for 5×7 sized pictures) and put them in a binder. Then added adhesive tabs to keep them oRganiZed!
I also added some full length page protectors for some of my larger recipes and for my meal list! Now when someone GiVes me a recipe, no matter the shape or size, I have a place to keep it protected!
My meal list includes the name of every meal we eat and the main ingredients needed. Every time I go shopping I grab the list so I no longer have to take my entire recipe book or make a handwritten list. It has really come in handy!
This live-it list item was something that I completed in an afternoon. My next task is to get all of my recipes typed on the computer and saved. Like any goal, it is a work in progress and I will reJoiCe and eNjoY every small step I make!
Last Friday I made my 9 day promise to be a more patient mommy and not “LoSe It” when things get out of control. Within 3 hours of the post going up I was already struggling to keep my cool when my kids seemed to be on an all out crusade to do the opposite of anything I was asking them to do! Thankfully my husband stepped in and told me to go out and run my errands by myself. I got in my mommy mini-van and listened to my Christmas music and savored each uninterrupted moment I had as I drove. While I was out I sent Lara a text saying that I seemed to be FaILiNg miserably at my 9 day promise. She wrote back some great advice…”Actions are stronger than words.” Now when my kids act up instead of yelling I am taking Lara’s advice and am just moving them to time-out without saying anything. They are old enough to know why they are in trouble without me going on and on about it and saying nothing keeps me from “losing it”. By the time their time-out is over I can talk to them about what they did in a calm manner.
When working on your Live-It List, think about the people you can ReLy on to help you be successful. Whether it be skydiving or completing a quilt, think of the people in your life that you can reach out to who can help you AcHieVe your goals!
~Robyn (Jersey Girl)
Over the weekend I spoke with a relative who gave me the iDeA to share the “less is more” concept when brainstorming your live-it list. Her new year’s resolution for 2011 was to take at least one photo every, single day. Her Goal was not necessarily to be artsy and super creative, but to simply keep track of the year, one day at a time. Some of her posts were short and others were long, as she never committed to writing a certain amount, which may have discouraged her to continue. The most important thing was to come up with 1 picture to signify every day that year.
I especially like that she said being forced to take a daily picture helped her to “loOk uP” in life vs. always looking down. Isn’t that cool?! That is so true, and after talking to her, I could see how much this goal had really opened her eyes to things in the world that she normally may have ignored!
We may think we have to come up with such aMaziNg and out-of-this-world things to put on our live-it list, when in fact it is the basic, everyday things that often eNrich our lives the most. In what ways can you simplify some of the items on your list? Maybe you want to “enjoy life more” or “have more quality family time”. In order to achieve those things you don’t need to take expensive trips, spend money, or do something extreme. How can you sImpLify those items using the resources you have and make it a convenient way to incorporate it in your daily routine? Remember, less is more…so go down every item on your list and ask yourself, ‘how can I simplify this to make it more attainable’? You might be surprised at the new items you come up with!
If you have any ideas, please share by commenting below. We have many people working on their lists this week. Help encourage others by sharing your thoughts!
Can you believe that 2011 is almost over! On January 1st the SuEde SoFa will begin the ”LiVe It LiSt” challenge!! In case you haven’t read or heard about our “Live It List” challenge, here it is in a NuTsHeLL:
The “Live It List” is sort of like a “BuCkEt LiSt” only with the emphasis on living rather than on dying. Not only does it focus on living life, but living it to the full TODAY, not sometime down the road when circumstances are more ideal. The “Live It List” targets the little things in life that really make the biggest differences such as relationships, fulfilling your purpose, and enjoying life. And if that isn’t exciting enough, the Suede Sofa will give one fortunate reader a brand new Coach purse! You can find out more about the challenge by Clicking Here. But wait!! Before you click for more details what’s on your list?
Here are some ideas to get your imaginations soaring!!
“Live It List” Ideas
- Create a vision board. (A bulletin board with pictures of things that motivate and inspire you)
- Work your way through a cookbook like in the movie “Julia and Julia”
- Take a course from “The Great Courses” (www.thegreatcourses.com)
- Learn to make jewelry, knit a scarf, make pasta, etc. via watching a YouTube tutorial
- Reconnect with an old pen pal
- Do a triathlon
- Volunteer with your child
- Organize a community event
- Photograph old barns or your favorite people/items/animal/scenery
- Start an Etsy business
- Grow herbs
- Start a blog
- Visit your physican and begin a healthy life style
- Carve out 30 minutes a day reserved only for your child/children
- Spend 15 minutes a day praying, meditating, etc.
- Complete “The Love Dare”
- Complete “The Purpose Driven Life”
- Establish a date night once a week with your spouse, significant other, child, friend, or family member
- Change your look
- Do a personal make-over
- Do a home make-over
- Pamper yourself once a week
- Ask an estranged friend/family member if you can “Begin Again”
- Do a random act of kindness once a week
- Learn to decorate a cake
- Plan a weekend get away
- Search for your favorite childhood toys/books/ etc on Ebay
- Send a care package to someone in the military
- Visit the Drive-In, Diners, and Dives in your area (from Food Networks “Drive-Ins, Diners, and Dives” television show)
- Take a dance class with your friend or spouse
- Do a room makeover for under $100
- Start a new family tradition
- Document your family traditions
- Take flight lessons
- Make a piece of furniture
- Hunt for a vintage piece of furniture from a flea market, antique shop, etc.
- Start working on the home-based business you’ve been dreaming of
- Turn a hobby into a business. Need some ideas? Check out this website of hobbies: http://www.notsoboringlife.com/list-of-hobbies/
- Invite friends over for weekly cooking classes hosted by those people who make your favorite foods i.e. have Mom teach how she makes her famous fried chicken, Grandma teach how to make her delicious apple pie, etc.
- Start a collection by going to antique shops, Ebay, garage sales, etc. – vintage cameras, geodes, vintage letters or numbers
- Finally begin pursuing your passion
- Determine what your passion is
- Write thank-you letters to people who have made a difference in your life
- Create a budget that you can live by
- Take Dave Ramsey’s Finanical Peace University course
- Get a puppy
- Do on-line dating
- Finish your bachelor’s/Master’s/Doctorate Degree
- Get a certification in your field
- Take a martial arts class
- Turn one room in your house into one that inspires you
- Create a top 10 list: i.e. Places to visit, Home projects to complete, Friends to get reconnected with, Activities to do, Goals to pursue and complete by Dec 31, Foods to make, etc.
- Make your family’s own personal “Yearbook” by documenting pictures as well as the stories that go with them by going to websites such as: www. shutterfly.com, http://www.Winkflash.com, etc.
- Create a list of eight things you are going to do (one for each week) that is achievable, yet exciting and motivating
- Call your friends/family to say, “I love you”
- Talk to a financial planner and start planning for the future!
- Make your own art gallery
- Get on a travel website and dream
- Find the thing that encourages your imagination and begin dreaming
- Begin writing a book
- Adopt an elderly person or a child to be kind to
- Take your kid fishing
- Take your dad fishing
- Finally read a book that you have been wanting to read
- Visit your hometown
- Reminisce with a childhood friend
- Give blood
- Pay the toll for the car behind you at a toll gate
- Make snow angels after the next big snowfall
- Run for an elected office
- Get a Red-Cross certification in something
- Resurrect an old skill such as playing an instrument, writing poetry, singing, drawing, etc.
- Give away or sell everything you don’t need/use
- Make a difference in oNe LiFe
With the “LiVe-It LiSt” challenge starting on January 1st, we have not only been encouraging our readers to work on their list, but have been tweeking ours, as well. We’ll continue to share some of those items in hopes to give you ideas, as well as inpire and motivate. One of our items on our list is SeLf-ImProVeMeNt. Instead of waiting until the New Year we are making a nine-day ProMise to ourselves. The promise is not perfection. We may fall off the bandwagon, but we commit to get right back on. To ReMiNd ourselves of the promise we’ve made to ourself, we are each doing something unique. (See below).
Lara says - “Whenever I start to worry or become anxious I am going to say the prayer of Hail Mary.”
Robyn (Jersy Girl) says - “I am going to try and be a patient Mommy and not “lose it” when things get out of control.”
Robynn says – “I’m showing kindness with words by not saying anything unkind to or about someone.”